Party Patio: firstly, a little history.

The essence of the patio dates back to around 9,000 BCE in the Near East during the Neolithic period. It later spread to other regions. One of the oldest examples is Skara Brae in Orkney, Scotland. It features back alleys and communal areas. For more information, check this link: [Skara Brae – Wikipedia].

A party and patio – the two surely go together.

Who can say no to a gentle, tepid, warm breeze blowing on a warm Sunday June evening? Laughter from a group of people bouncing around to the vibrations of tunes playing, either with a DJ or not, and delicious food under the vast sky. These are the memories of not only my misspent youth but also the days yet to come. A spot specially crafted for the V.I.P. special, a fantastic frenzy of fun.

Whilst ‘party patio’ may not be a formal architectural term, it’s a unique term growing in popularity; hell, it might become a term one day, adding charm and character to your outdoor space. It perfectly captures the spirit of wanting to bring the fun outdoors! Think of a “party patio” as your garden social HQ, a paved area that hosts memorable gatherings and celebrations. It’s like an extension of your home, where the cosy vibes of your indoor space meet the fresh air (Make sure to cover the DJ setup from the rain though.)

You will need a DJ and setup if you really want a party on a Saturday night patio! Meet Tony below.

From a young age, Tony showed a flair for building custom mixers and decks, often working late into the night to perfect his designs and all the while contributing to events at the YMCA. His ability to transform simple sheets of wood into impressive musical machines is a testament to his dedication and creativity. Today, he stands out not only as a professional DJ but also as a skilled electrician; his two passions have been uniquely turned into a career. Whether he’s crafting new equipment, spinning tracks at a party, or maybe creating his own patio. (Who knows, it may well have been the case.) Tony embodies the spirit of innovation and artistry in the music scene; as a gardener, I respect the skills he possesses. Here is link to see more: Dj furniture

In my brother’s garden we established that a patio can also be a calming place, and you can visit the blog here to see a more laid-back, Mediterranean, and even dog-friendly approach too:My Brother David’s Garden. – Bizzybee-Garden-Market

Picture this: a party patio that flows like a well-choreographed dance. One moment, your guests are gliding to the dining area, plates laden with BBQ delights; the next, they are sinking into a cosy lounger for a chat under the stars.

Above are some ideas of spacious patios, which could be incorporated in your new designs. pics from and with thanks to Canva Premium.

The secret, from what I have seen in people’s gardens?

Well, it appears to be a thoughtful design that prioritises human trafficking from area to area. This is even in the smallest of gardens if you have a designated area for different situations. For instance, different areas for dining, lounging and playing. Each area feels purposeful and inviting, but it is like giving your garden a map; although I do not think you will need Google Maps to find your way around. Planning means you won’t fall over the pouffe or chairs, and there are no awkward weaving assault courses. It is, to me, all about the effortless mingling of guests and your family and enjoying yourselves without the cramped chaos.

It is getting too big for me here; how about a change of scenery and a bit of yardy dar? (Off topic but I did not want to leave anyone out.)

Robert Cooke recently joined me on my podcast and we discussed his plans for his yard and also his prostate, which we ride for this August, not just his prostate but all prostates in the prevention of cancer. Here it is episode 7

Episode 7 (contains info regarding prostate cancer.)

If you have a yard, then this is going to feel familiar. You may have taken more twists than Chubby Checker and the Fat Boys by now, or perhaps you’re like my brother, the “#Fatman on a Bike,” who typically rides around his yard—which makes him a kind of a patio enthusiast, except he has a yard that is sort of like a patio but with surrounding walls. Did I mention you can’t swing a cat in there? How does he ride a bike? I live too far away to ask. I have not written about yards yet but will do one day; they have a place in my heart, but it is a smaller place and can feel less roomy than a patio. Utilisation of space and tidiness are paramount to a yard; my brother, in a recent podcast not yet released, talks of his love of a mass clean-down in spring so he can use the space available; I like the idea, well done Rob.

Back to the patio – LIghts, action, no filming, people partying.

Lighting enhances ambience and safety on a party patio, especially in the evening. Use string lights for a festive feel, portable lanterns for soft illumination, and pathway lights to prevent tripping hazards. Combining different types of lights and depth ensures the patio is inviting and well-lit. If you can put some strobing and flashing lights in for ‘I can boogie’ to play to, that’s great, in my eyes, and I’m assuming Tony’s too; you’re the disco winner.

There is no point in having a numb bum style.

Trust me, it happens. You’ll want to take a seat or lie down. You need comfort in seating. The hammock might not fit the needs of a party patio, as you want people to dance and talk. So, if they are snoozing, kick them out.

Plush cushions and seating arrangements that make people want to sit and stay for a long time, not forever, as you may wish to relax on following days without a dance floor and party poppers, are very welcoming. (Bonus points if you throw in a blanket for colder nights.)

Waterproof materials

I notice a lot of garden furniture comes with waterproof materials like aluminium, resin wicker, teak and fabrics tough enough to hold out through the dewy nights as well as tough enough to survive the apocalypse of family gatherings are wise.

Don’t slap and slide

Your patio needs a sleek catwalk moment; pick pieces that match your vibe, whether that would be sleek modern minimalism or charming rustic chic. Neutral tones, my research shows, these are crowd pleasers. (I don’t know, I like loud and colourful, but I hate 70’s orange. lol) My research took me to B&Q.

Plants in your outdoor space are absurd at a party, just kidding. They can turn a plain patio into a peaceful sanctuary or a party into a safari with Bear Grylls. The key is to maintain symmetry and avoid overcrowding; space between plants is stylish in this setting, unless you’re aiming for a dance-off obstacle course, as drink is usually fatal for the flowerbeds. Always remember to prioritise the safety of your guests and shrubs, especially the elderly or infirm, who might not appreciate unexpected twists and turns. Put a wall up or something to protect your roses from making someone feel a prick—ooh, agony. Then again, why would you want peace and tranquillity at a party? I’m just trying to be inclusive and keep the NHS waiting lists down and screams of discontent to a minimum, I suppose. I see plum slate in a lot of gardens or cedar wood chippings still seem popular as well.

Hey, garden enthusiasts! 🌿

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